By Dr Renita D’Souza
Behavior is the outcome of emotions and feelings in a child. All feelings of the child need to be accepted and respected but certain actions must be limited. Example “I can see how angry you are at your brother. Tell him with words, not by breaking things”.
How to accept and respect child’s feelings?
Listen calmly and attentively to what child has to say. It will be easy and comfortable for children to express their troubles to someone who is listening. Need not say anything, all what a child need is the sympathetic silence. Children may not know to express their feelings, so we can give name to their feelings. Like, “So you are hurt, for your best friend did not come to your birthday party.” Sometimes just recognizing their feelings with simple words like “Oh…..mmm” or “I see” can help children explore their own thoughts and feelings. It can…